| Every man I know has had that feeling. That girl you can’t get out of your head. The one with the pretty hair and the funny laugh. The one you know likes you, but only as a friend. The one that you will find any excuse to be around, but when you’re there you won’t tell her how you feel!
She normally dates more experienced guys – how are you ever going to get her to like you?
Us men are pretty base – we are attracted to women based mainly on their looks. Luckily for us, women are attracted to men based on our personalities. Women are on the look-out for an Alpha Male. A man that isn’t afraid to take the lead and act confidently to get what he wants from life.
Incredibly, the best way for you to get the girl of your dreams is to make her feel like she has earned you!
You need to change the way you think about yourself. You are a person of value – neediness is not attractive.
Repeat after me … NEEDINESS IS NOT ATTRACTIVE
So the best attitudes to have towards any one particular woman are:
1. Nonchalance.
2. Non-attachment to whether she likes you or not. (By that I mean, if she likes you that’s awesome, but if not, there are tons of other girls out there who are equally as great as she is.)
The bottom line is that a woman should never be a challenge for you. Instead you should be a challenge for her.
In addition to placing a high value on yourself, you can also eliminate neediness by building up your social network. Make friends with as many women as you can. (Women are easy to make friends with.)
Also date as many women as you can… don’t restrict yourself to dating only “that one special girl.”
You see, the last thing you ever want to have going through your mind when you’re around that special woman is, “God, I MUST have this girl! She’s irreplaceable!” Having an abundance of women in your life will solve that problem.
Also, whenever a woman sees that other girls are attracted to a guy, she too feels attraction. Psychologically, this is known as the “social proof” phenomenon… and it’s much more powerful in women than men.
Ever noticed how your female friends drool over the guy at the corner of the bar who’s got four babes at his table? That’s social proof in action.
By the way, it’s fine to think a girl is beautiful and to have powerful feelings for her.
Here’s the key though… you must always remind yourself that there are LOTS of other women out there who are just as wonderful as she is.
If you start thinking that any girl is one of a kind, then that gives her power over you, and, ironically, makes her lose attraction to you.
So, you’re free to think that a woman’s amazing. Just remember that lots of other girls are amazing too. That way you won’t become needy.
So remember, place a high value on yourself, make her earn your attention, and hang out with as many women as possible… those are the three secrets for how to get a girl to like you.
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